Everybody is in grow, this kind grows is the dynamic process of a ceaseless development. Growing is everlasting, a lot of jobs in the life hold hard, even love, you may change, then the individual also may go; But growing can hold, this is the acceptance to oneself. May somebody is cloggy your success, however nobody can prevent you grow. In other words, this all one's life you need not succeed, but have to grow. So will tell to an adult, what is a person grow? The contrail that the Confucianism previously asks the person grows is: Cultivate one's morality, neat home, manage state affairs, smooth the world. And philosopher Luo Suze thinks, of the person grow the contradiction that should encounter 3 respects: It is the contradiction of person and environment, 2 it is person and society, namely the contradiction of person and person, the 3 contradiction that are person and oneself. I feel, growing process of the person searchs people on one's own side to give birth to the process of coordinate ceaselessly namely actually. The person arrives as a child big, eye shot opens broad, knowledge ceaselessly ceaseless and rich, experience is accumulated ceaselessly, know oneself deeplier and deeplier thereby, also be at the same time all round understanding the world, I want to be afraid this is growing process of the person. Growing method of the person is different, life is gone after also differ in thousands ways, no matter succeed, final a home to return to of the person is identical roughly. And distinction depends on the way that everyone has taken differring, the real experience of the understanding rate with crude to people on one's own side everybody and own heart cannot duplicate. The microenvironment of the person that grow even if should break through oneself ceaselessly, and the process that enters a wider world. This kind of breakthrough, want to break through the bounds of physical space not only, also want to break through the bounds of interior space. However, to the individual grow, what is the most important? Everybody may emphasize particularly on the point is different, and I still want to say these 3 aspects today: Person and the outer world, person and person, person and oneself. I feel to the person grow, if search coordinate, should go searching the following 3 coordinate: It is the coordinate of the times; 2 be compare with others, your comparison what is the advantage; The 3 coordinate that are him heart. I still remember me interviewing Kissinger doctor for the first time, I still study abroad in the United States in those days. Just begin to make interview item, do not have experience particularly, asking question is east one hammer, on the west of one club, ask for instance: "Premier Zhou asks you to eat Beijing roast duck in those days, you ate a few ah " , " you handled a lot of major diplomacy event all one's life, what is you are the proudest " wait for this kind of problem. Of course I also had seen others ask this kind of question on TV. Always ask this kind of question, it is did not prepare beforehand. Be in later Sino-US when establishing diplomatic relations 30 years, I interviewed Kissinger doctor again, I know to also cannot ask again in those days " ate roast duck of a few Beijing " this kind of problem. Although look half hours only, our group the material that all concerning collect, the paper when, speech should be taught in Ha Fo from him, to his biography. Have a thick pile, still have 7 books. Look, I am dizzy also, write down not clear the what that look. Although interview,have 27 minutes only, but very effective. Was to prepare a pail of water really, used only finally. But you the reserve of these knowledge, can make you hold the trend of the problem in the spot. The last problem that notes so that I ask him is: This is the times of a globalization, have the opportunity of a lot of win-win and collaboration, but also appeared of religion, phyletic, the intense conflict of culture, do you think we toward which does this world go after all? Peace is possible inside how long? He rises continuously say, you asked a first-rate question, immediately was elaborated one time. So I think to want business tax all the time. I am not a clever person, but still calculate assiduous, will make up for oneself inadequacy through business class. Of a person growing begin immanently formidably from oneself. |
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