Receive old schoolmate telephone call, say to want to look for me to the unit. Drop a telephone call, I say to the work in the same placing of the office: "Everybody noticed, a little while a belle is driven! A flower is when the family goes to school, very beautiful, hunter discharges school gate mouth from the classroom at that time! " everybody listened, establish extemporaneous act vigorously to rise. Especially two men, it is two more put light. Very fast, the classmate came. I arrive alertly, everybody sees the first times her, the expectation in the eyes becomes disappointment very quickly. The classmate talked about dot thing to go with me. After she leaves, a male colleague says: "Is the class flower of your class long such? volunteer one's services becomes, resemble what say in that jest, classmates, you choose me to be spent when the class, such everybody can say to others later, when I go to school, than the class the flower is returned beautiful! " everybody bursts out laughing. In all fairness, this classmate appearance is more conspicuous, and she has charm temperament more than student times now, but why is everybody disappointed? I think the mainest reason is, I tell everybody she is very beautiful beforehand, everybody begins to imagine her appearance in brain. Because have enough imaginary space, expectation value of everybody is so enough also tall. Hoping because of by a definite date the cost is too high, see her herself so, ability can feel she is not quite beautiful. This phenomenon is very interesting. Actually, there still are a lot of similar appearances in the life. Last year the beginning of the year, our unit came an undergraduate, when the leader introduces him, say university of his famous brand graduates, very outstanding, joined a party in the school, can Wen Nengwu, anyhow is very outstanding. Everybody thinks, a such colleagues can be very fast certainly in the job make success, show itself. Who knows, went one year, his expression flatly, can say to not have result had not had. Because before be, everybody sees him too high, very tall also to his expectation value, so he works commonplace everybody is met special disappointment. Somebody suspects even say: "How doesn't graduate of famous brand college have glow in our unit? Knowing is the famous brand that where comes! Knowing is the famous brand that where comes!! Have more very person, say he is the kin of some leader, rely on those who come in to concern. Because people looks him too high, fall very easily so. Contrary, if new unit reachs at the beginning of you, low-key act, although others looks down on you,also never mind. People looks you low, want you to agree hard only, others can be looked at with new eyes to you. My student is such. She just went to work that year, not setting, not experience, do not have qualifications and record of service, work in the same placing are to distain very to her. Somebody looks down on her, she makes total call some of sundry. No matter others lets her what do, she is good disposition ground is accepted. Such everybody more feel she is a commonplace generation, put her in the eye without the person. Do not cross her and pay no attention to the view of others, also not be afraid of others despise. She studies professional work silently, modest consult to the fellow worker that has experience. Gradually, her patient modesty and sureness got admissive seriously. Before long hind, she obtained very right result in the job, and performance is more and more outstanding. Each bits of her achievement, accident like flower leaves same, get of everybody fix eyes upon. Nowadays, her job makes the unboiled water that get wind, everybody speaks of her, can be profuse in praise. Not be afraid of others him look down on, others the more look down on you, smaller to your expectation value, the result that you obtain is paid close attention to more easily, go more easily also taller more. Be glanced by others not likely is what favour high, alleged station must be jumped over tall, fall more miserably. Do not have experience, do not have setting, nobody guide and support, nobody have a good opinion of, these never mind, want you to try hard to progress only, silent labor force, amaze the people with a single brilliant feat is sooner or later thing. |
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