The person likes him, also hope others likes him. If the view of others and oneself view is same, can arise satisfy the state of mind with self-confidence; If the view of others compares ego acknowledge to still be close friends, can arise glad to mix happy state of mind; It is dismay and lose conversely. But, if was denied by the person that oneself admire in the heart, this kind of blow is double, because not only was denied, the person that still is hoped to be able to affirm oneself most gives denied. Such psychological fall, can produce serious negative stimulation. Get such stimulation, a bit more objective likely still self-communion, the defect that improves oneself ceaselessly perhaps searchs the someone else that can affirm his; But if fall exceeded the psychological desired value of party, become when cannot bearing, can arouse indignant sentiment, then him oversight defect, hate the other side. It is grim mood angrily, the mood that with the animal to live risk one's life fights is identical. Because of the anger that love and is born, may cause serious consequence. " associate of divine carve a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct " the female demon head that appears at the beginning " bare experienced faery " Li Mo anxious, because love,lay the classic case of hate namely. Li Mo anxious is originally " barrow is sent " conspicuous female child, appearance, gest is very outstanding, more god-given is bearing goodness. It is in the ill will that disregards a men and women at the outset after Liu Zhanyuan cure hurts teenager Ying Jie, ground of honor permits no turning back fell in love with him. Liu Zhanyuan did not tell Li Mo him anxious at that time already the heart is belonged to somewhat, li Mo anxious exhibits yuan of be passionately devoted to land, betray division door finally. After coming out from barrow, li Mo anxious has one's heart filled with the illusion that is happiness, until arrive at Liu Jiazhuang, saw Liu Zhanyuan and He Yuanjun do obeisance to the one act of hall get married, sufferred the blow of be drowned, be overwhelmed with sorrow. Anxious of this Li Mo thinks is Liu Zhanyuan love another person, became become terror-stricken at the news making a person from faery then " bare experienced faery " . She begins to abreact with homicide oneself anger, with snatch other joy to come him be pacified the heart is traumatic. Till finally, the dead ability of Li Mo anxious makes everybody thoroughly clear, love has to her harm how old. Be like Li Mo to anxious is harmed so by affection and become dreariness, wretch, in the knight-errant such as Jin Yong, Gu Long everybody's the wording and purpose of what one writes still has a lot of. " day dragon 8 " medium Li Qiu water, " lean on Tian Tulong to write down " medium Zhou Zhi if, " peerless double arrogant " invite the palace of the moon mediumly advocate etc, let person Xi |
Orignal From: Anger and envy
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