Happiness is not a simple noun. In Gu Hanyu, "Favour " point to auspicious and avoid fierce, and " blessing " it is " disaster " antonym, state everything is successful, lucky. It is lucky that these two words close successful, lucky and be far from the meaning with fierce disaster. Tell from this meaning, the person that we can live each times in safety should feel happy. Always blaming the person that feels without happiness, majority is will happy concept understanding slanted. The desire did not get satisfaction, the dismay that ambition fails to realize a generation is vexed, not be happiness lose, however happy amlposition. Contemporary Chinese language is to happy definition: The joyance that the individual's condition gets improvement and arises, satisfy and be thankful, abundant psychology is experienced. Understand with this, happy origin is the change of condition, is not condition itself. Want forever happy, need to be changed ceaselessly, joyance experiences in the change, get satisfaction. The keyword here is " change " . The change is to point to individual change, development, have individual change only, ability brings the individual's happiness. But we often can forget this keyword in real life, do not be willing to pay price for him change, blame the work with one's mind or brains that changes a course and labor force, then backwater not before. Without the life of the change, happy from why and come? Another crucial question, it is how to be limitted " change " . The person's change must be spent in fore-and-aft dimension in undertake, that is to say, want oneself and oneself to undertake comparative, not " forget one's origin " . The person is the animal that forgets him true colors the most easily, in one day is gotten, meet be insatiable, the desire expands. One does not have the undergraduate of what family background, graduation is less than 10 years, in a pretty good unit, the room has a car, had mixed well ordinarily. But unluckily such person, complaint is the biggest. They " experienced and knowledgeable " , always encounter richer, famouser person, compare with them, oneself life dim and blank. This kind of blind is transverse quite, it is happy bane. It strangled the achievement feeling of ego on one hand, still can stimulate a person to overestimate own ability additionally " desperately " , to achieve taller goal, overdraw oneself, make the day before whacked, without joy of life. Two this years the success of cause a temporary clamor learns to always encouraging person start to come, or the tiptoe since stand on tiptoe goes enough those things that do not belong to oneself originally, achieve so called success. But forgot however, the tiptoe since stand on tiptoe gets along, what is the person's feeling? A society if the tiptoe since stand on tiptoe gets along, that is screwy insanity. Happiness is a kind daily, be a kind active up, but the enterprising of do according to one's abilities. Compare with him photograph in the past more, the society applauses for today's progress, enjoy the joy that each bits of change brings. Happy person is gentle, happy life is halcyon, happy society is friendly. Want yourself happily to define, do not need to see the hint given with the eyes of others. |
Orignal From: What is happy?
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