" I and ground altar " author Shi Tiesheng is place of all of us hep. He sent double leg to break down due to illness 1972 return Beijing. Began to publish work 1979. “ lives to be the suddenly disability on the madcappest age double leg. ” is in 20 centuries 90 time, the influence of modern mind after getting, normal people, also can't help be being worn painfully in the “ meaning ” with living humanness. ” of ” of “ ground altar, “ disabled person, “ abandons garden ” , these let past of Shi Tiesheng turn one's head also have deep feeling quite. He says: “21 when year old, if I know such day can be become forever, that will be inconceivable life! I perhaps can do not have courage to face more. Instead after 30 pass more, time see actual nowadays day, my instead does not feel Bei is sufferred from. Of the work steadily walk over, my instead thinks my life is particularly wonderful! Special significant! ”
Yes, we are in reality, do its classics regular meeting to quit, more because difficulty is too great,not be, feel successful to leave us further however, feel listless and helpless, cannot see a hope. Change character, because abandon,we are not and fail, however because listless and fail!
Make a move treats one condition, can see oneself way as clear as dayly without the person, obviously for nothing. Almost we each person can be in daily life ceaselessly be rebuffed, ceaseless be rebuffed lets us ponder over the route that ourselves should take and the way that should want gradually!
We look further, be frightened very easily by the difficulty with unidentified far! Our meeting is easy and listless! Do not look so far, someone can say this kind of person does not have long end, without long-term plan. Such person shortsighted, all day place footfall. How should we do then? If we differentiate long-term goal for many phase, it is every phase establish again a little cause, once achieve,give oneself a few award and positive feedback. Can let us so wholeheartedly, absorbed ground solves the problem before. When solving a problem we can get self-confidence and pleasure ceaselessly from which, get coming true leaving the force of one phase target.
In the journey of life, we want bosom high aim not only, also want to take the establish of little cause seriously, should learn to differentiate long end for a certain number of little cause goes one by one comes true, as the student, to learning also be same. The target is decided too far, instead reachs for what is beyond his grasp easily, to final accomplish nothing!
Again long way, one pace insists to be able to go; Again short way, do not stride double foot to cannot arrive forever. Certain reality, work steadily, we feel the target comes true more easily instead, terminus arrives more easily!
The worst thing on this world depends on holding to, the easiest thing also depends on holding to! We do not need to decide the individual's goal too long-termly, it is OK to need to be installed “ opposite ” is a few further only, this is spent should decide according to the circumstance of our individual. Look too far, may not is good! The most important is we should begin to do this side thing, the thing that can accomplish, next one pace walks into long-term goal!
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