Life is like a book, read very much. Life if scene, do not look... We always are in imperceptible in dozen laugh in the bottom of the heart read others, read the pride of others, read the feeling of others. Read others to look however not clear oneself a few jins a few, without reason magnifies oneself advantage or exceeding depression are pessimistic... Ancient have a word " oneself think over when reading a person " . It is more when reading others defect, should review oneself more, read oneself, in order to learn from others's strong points to offset one's weakness, make oneself do not make mistake of as same as others humourous. People is advocated all the time read, read good book, but allude rarely should read oneself well. Others seeing Qing Dynasty not easily, understand oneself more not easy. However, the person that can understand oneself truly uses up the gentleman that goes up to heart of it may be said. The person has a pair of eyes, can view the world natively, read others. And should see oneself also can be pleasant to the eye in the mirror only oneself one side, this one side also is hazy and truthless. When unscrambling oneself, often many people always are being worn " magnifier " boundless him enlarge advantage; to defect, prefer to use Dai Yifu to sunglasses blurs and be obliterated, the most method that this moment uses is " deceive oneself as well as others " , do not be willing above all the person that oneself analyse oneself, also read forever do not know oneself... Read the person that does not know oneself, prefer to install oneself in beautiful bubble, even if this kind of bubble is essential cannot keep out what. As a result of, dare not read oneself person, it is not to wish to face above all true oneself. Read the person that does not know oneself, often blame everyone and everything but not oneself, by extreme bring about lazy, turn to depression by impulse, do not answer everything flexibly on blame and external object. The body that what use likewise is him and name will set life view, but in the scenery much a Bei is cool with groan... Read-only the person that others does not read him, fated success and oneself some far. Even if is to be willing to read his accidentally, also may not is correct. That animated true you, hide in the backside of success and failure, only static next hearts come, absorption collide toward feeling! Understand oneself to need courage and will. Because understand oneself,not be temporarily impulse is analysed with what garble definitely, it needs what otherwise breaks to kowtow attack the soul, the intellect that puts oneself in him contrast in different environment and impulse, foolish with clever. Understand oneself to still need to consult with person and thing everywhere constantly, often also analyse only differentiate, ability generates panic in the heart under photograph comparing, form psychological pressure, cause competitive idea thereby. So, want to will read person and province oneself be united in wedlock constantly rise. If say to read the word that others is as clever as the mankind dialog, so, reading his is to cast off barbaric sensible approach. Can understand oneself person, have self-knowledge. Him dispute of oneself in the heart the clearest, also have only such, ability general " others assist I, did not increase damage of others of a; with me I, did not reduce one a unit of weight with me " state photograph union rises. Thereby fame and gain of not seek fame and wealth, calm plays! Dare to unscramble oneself person, it is the person that dares to face reality. Such person state of mind is stable, when anything crops up not Jing is fond of. The person that is good at him acknowledge, the acknowledge with nicer gift fastens person and world. In the final analysis, it is the familiar title of each person really. So called " the it would be better that read a person is read first oneself " , " should learn to stand in different point of view to see a landscape " it is this truth. In reality, we often stand in our angle, stand in the limits that oneself contact, the station is gone to in that circle that he draws see others, view the world, see everythings on earth. So, who can define the world, who can define the mankind? Who can be gone to again define oneself? So, false filthy, the true, all not be one each to oneself can define reconcile those who realize. That is to say, must have when anything crops up in the life big my spirit, the eye oneself is boundless put long put far, consider a subject on the manner that stands in others ceaselessly, rise different conclusion union, the other people seeing Qing Dynasty with better ability, understand oneself, ability will not take the roundabout way of the life! Also understand oneself person only, the view that just can have a pair of acumen has an insight into temporal. Anyhow, a person, identify him cicada to just can read others before first only, ability is gone to quite read others or the world. Can we should like to ask one oneself, when you read others, whether taking oneself point of view, oneself whether the result that personal classics had dispute? Your oneself classics read this time yourself. Because your oneself classics used his moral survryor's rod,go to measured others. The essence of the answer is accurate, depend on completely oneself acknowledge is spent. Have a word " the onlookers see most clearly, authorities person fan " . Those who say is people often puts him below a specific environment, look not clear oneself, this needs us to treat other people as constantly one side mirror, communicate with them, be good at listen respectfully their dot unplugs, gift is nicer make him close to successful! And the person that is not good at dare not unscrambling oneself even, forever with true the wall that oneself are lying between a massiness, this is a kind of tremendous distress! Because read the person that does not know oneself, the staff guage that is clear about with respect to neither one above all is gone to comprehend fasten support of the people to measure the world. In fact, it is very difficult to understand his, it is good to model oneself are more difficult. In my heart, the heart that understands oneself to want to use chasteness namely is gone to model oneself. Understand oneself, it is otherwise breaks the ground and him heart-to-heart talk, should pass with oneself meaning do not go to, the lesson when failure is summed up when succeed, the experience when the success is searched when fail. The clue that yields him all the time to want to maintain a reason ability is OK more rational and comprehensive read the world. Understand oneself person only, ability understands life truly this big book, because the author of this book is him, the reader also is him. |
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